Selasa, 20 Mei 2008

Islam's War On Sex
By Aidan Maconachy


Google Trends provides the means of assessing how often a search term is used. When you enter a word such as "sex", it returns a list of cities, countries and languages in which the term is used most often.

According to an article entitled "Sex and Taboos in the Islamic World" published in Spiegel magazine, when the word "sex" was entered into Google Trends a result was returned that indicated Pakistanis use the search term the most, followed by Egyptians. In the Spiegel test in 2006, other Muslim countries - Iran, Morocco, Indonesia and Saudi Arabia - were in the top ten category of nations where "sex" was used as a search term.

Muslim authorities by and large don't approve of this and there are efforts underway to reduce access to sexual content on the internet. Countries such as Saudi Arabia, Tunisia, Yemen, Iran and the United Arab Emirates employ commercial filtering systems to target pornography and other material deemed to be un-Islamic. A US product named SmartFilter is used in Tunisia and Saudi Arabia. In the case of Tunisia the blocking of porn also extends to blocking of politically sensitive material, but the state masks its censorship of opinion by returning a "file not found" message to users, when in fact the material is being deliberately blocked by state censors.

In Uzbekistan filtering blocks pornography, but blocking also applies to sites with political content. In some cases users can access the main page of a site but are unable to use deep links to explore the content.

Censorship is alive and well in many Muslim nations, and a great deal of the effort to control the flow of images and information relates to pornography. Censorship also relates to sites that deal with sexuality in less obvious ways. For example in Yemen, blocked sites include those that offer sex education, advertise "provocative" fashions, dating sites and gay information. So internet filtering has become a tool of cultural control in many cases.

The latest crack down on "un-Islamic conduct" comes in Malaysia, where the state has taken upon itself to appoint volunteer spies to watch for unmarried couples who are misbehaving. Some waitresses and janitors for example have been mentioned as possible auxiliaries of the "religious department". They would have the task of snooping on lovers for evidence of heated passions that exceed the permitted degree of affection on the department's intimacy barometer.
Enforcers of religious law in Saudi Arabia are known as the muttawa, or Committee for the Promotion of Virtue and the Prevention of Vice.

There have been many reports of their high handed treatment of women. For example, if an unmarried Saudi female is found in the company of foreign men, she risks being taken into custody and subjected to a medical examination to determine whether or not she has had sex.
Not so long ago the Saudi trial of the so-called "Girl of Qatif" made headlines around the world. She was accused of un-Islamic behavior for the "offence" of being alone in a car with a male. Even though she and her companion were abducted by male assailants and she was the alleged victim of a sexual assault, she was nonetheless sentenced to 90 lashes.

In 2002, the muttawa prevented rescuers from helping out when a school in Mecca caught fire. The reason? They considered the teenage females inside to be immodestly dressed. As a result, fifteen of these young women died.

The willingness of some Muslim authorities to repress liberated behavior, especially of a sexual nature, extends also to publishing. Recently in Indonesia protests erupted when Playboy magazine produced its second edition. Prior to this the magazine's editorial offices in Jakarta were attacked. As a result of this and other intimidation, the Playboy Indonesia operation moved to the island of Bali.

Indonesia is 85% Muslim, but is quite moderate compared to Yemen for example. Honor killings of women that occur in Pakistan and elsewhere, are almost unheard of in Indonesia. So the violent opposition to Playboy magazine on the part of a vocal minority of Muslim activists may not be wholly reflective of general opinion.

The court sentences imposed by some Islamic jurisdictions for sex related offences, have given rise to a good deal of concern on the part of human rights organizations such as Amnesty International. In Iran there was the case of a sixteen year old girl named Atefeh Rajabi who was charged with "acts incompatible with chastity" - having sex in other words. Atefeh had no access to legal council during the trial, and offended the judge by removing her hijab during a heated interchange. Allegedly she was considered mentally incompetent by the authorities and yet the trial and sentencing went ahead nonetheless. Her death sentence was upheld by a supreme court of conservative mullahs, and the judge himself was the one who hung this child publicly in Neka, in August 2004.

As with most religions there are varying interpretations of Islamic law. Sharia codes are the most draconian when it comes to free expression of sexuality. On the other hand, in Canada there an activist and writer named Irshad Manji who advocates the revival of critical thinking within Islam, known by the term "ijtihad". So there are different cultural currents within the Muslim community that are grappling with issues related to freedom of expression and individual rights.
Meantime stories continue to make the headlines that reflect the clash between traditional Islamic values and more progressive trends.

Aidan Maconachy is a freelance writer and artist based in Ontario. You can visit his blog at http://aidanmaconachyblog.blogspot.com/
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Will America Survive?
By Dennis Siluk Ed.D.


Are these the end times? The question seems to be coming up with a lot of clergy, especially after: 9/11, then Katrina, then Rita, and now the Mexican hurricane. Prophecies are being handed out like toilet paper, wherever you go; I see them in the bathrooms, at the movies, everyplace. People that do not even believe in God are making a killing off the prophecies, and its sequential end time events and some are not, some are upfront.

Katrina was perhaps the worse disaster America has seen, watched, and felt for a second time in less than five years: helpless. And then we got the criminal behavior by the raping and looting and all that garbage that took place, during this disaster: not after it, or before it, but during it…we got some real morons out there, down there: can’t wait to get their pants down.

Events? That is what it is all about, events that are taking place and going to take place: and the clergy, several I read about now, seen on TV, has indicated it is by Divine Providence these things are happening. And they quote Luke, Chapter 21: in my words: in those days (our time) the nations of the earth will be distressed and the sea and its waves will roar. Well we did see that happened didn’t, we? Here and in Indonesia, and parts of Asia in a very, very short time period.

Famine and pestilence has always been around here and there, but it just happens to be around, coupled with Katrina, Rite and a war in Iraq, and terrorism in Bali, the Middle East, Spain, England, and so forth and so on. IF we look at the seven trumpets in the bible, the three woes, we can see the trail of these events: nature and man fighting as if it was a rivalry going on.

Some of the preachers have quoted Matthew Chapter 24, in the Bible, predicting disaster. Thus, if all this is true, then we are only seeing fragments of what is really in store for us, and if that is true, we have several more big ones in the makings; perhaps making this look like a picnic.

[Prophecy] These preachers go on and talk about prophecy; I suppose I have my version also; after chewing on theirs for awhile: will America continue to be blessed? Many people think America is not blessed, that it’s just happened to be America because of whatever: like evolution, it just popped up one day, to be a frog from a fruit. Or so they’d have us believe, and believe also: by throwing the Ten Commandments in the corner trash can (and telling everyone to be honest and pay their taxes: think of what you are doing and asking); and marching proudly down main street with a gay rights banner tied to their groin area, as they did when I was in New Orleans some years ago; and the abortionist: killing 2-million fetuses a year, and crying for their rights, and going to church on Sunday thinking God is ok with this. And the Darwinian Stew, being forced down everyone’s throat: these folks are afraid to let Creationtionism into schools as if it didn’t take more faith to believe a grasshopper could grow into a centipede, just give it a few more centuries: more hocus-pocus.
But what I’m driving at is this: why would you think God would bless America? For what reason? I mean, do you think He’s having a party up there over our decisions down here? The fear of God is in that storm; I’m sure anyone who lived through it, is not thanking the devil; and I’m sure the devil is the one having the party. So yes, I believe there is a connection, why not, it is just logical. When you eliminate everything else, you only got one thing left: God.

[What will be?] What is in store for us: what a question, but I guess it is kind of written out in the Bible, so I’ve read, and so have many others, and I guess we will play the game: wait and see. Europe is gong to be a main player in world affairs, even more so than America: and it is not because they will be blessed, to the contrary, they will be used by God, as they are so far behind in their overdue judgments. I am not sure what will happen to America, but they will be naturalized: everything Biblical indicates so. Also Jerusalem will fall, as it has to [Daniel Chapter 9; before it’s resurrected], and you can review Revelation chapter 11 if you wish.

We have some big, mighty big electric shocks coming—but seeing is believing so it has been said—and I think the world is ripe for that: I could give you a date; although dates can be altered, but by the progression of things, the Bible says you can approximate, but why spoil the picnic.
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The Middle East Sex Plan


The psychologist J.M. Prescott found a link between sexual repression and aggression. Writing in the Bulletin of Atomic Scientists, Preston noted that "societies forbidding premarital sex are plagued by acts of rage." Prescott also found a link between sexual repression and "...a greater likelihood of killing and torturing enemies."

Islam does not support sexual liberation. Unless you happen to be a sheik with a pleasure palace and a a dozen mistresses, life for the average unmarried Muslim male in the Middle East doesn't offer a lot of opportunity . The society doesn't encourage it ... no billboard ads with skimpily dressed babes, no sex toy stores or adult video outlets, no racy magazines in the local store. In societies such as Saudi Arabia most of the females are veiled. A guy would have to be blessed with x-ray vision in order to get a glimpse of anything more erotic than say - an ankle or elbow.

This state-of-sexual-affairs is bound to add to the frustration level of young Muslim males with testosterone raging and adrenalin driving up the potential for explosive outbursts. As we know from TV footage, explosions of rage are common occurrences in the Muslim world. It's not unusual to see crowds of males channeling their energy into mass frenzies at funerals, flag-and-effigy-burning-demos or just to make a point about something they don't like on the news.

Internet porn is out of reach to most. Unlike Western nations, you can't assume that the average person living in say in Libya or Iran, will have ready access to a personal PC. In any case even those who do have PC's are often up against censors with filtering devices designed to prevent the encroachment of Western sex demons. Amongst those citizens of Muslim countries who have access to PC's and the software to get around the net, a few telling trends have been noted.

The Muslim world is fanatically obsessed with sex, according to statistics from Google Trend sources. If you type "sex" into Google Trends you can obtain a ranked list of cities, countries and languages in which the term was used most frequently.
Well surprise, surprise ... turns out the "decadent" Westerners were not the main sex seekers on Google.

According to a Spiegel article entitled "Sex and Taboos in the Islamic World", Pakistanis search for "sex" online most frequently, followed closely by Egyptians. Iran and Morocco were in fourth and fifth place, Indonesia seventh and Saudi Arabia eighth.

As any who are acquainted with Islamic sexual taboos well know, homosexuality is considered the ultimate moral horror, and is vigorously outlawed. In Iran men have even been tortured and executed for the "crime" of being gay. So it was interesting to discover that when the terms "boy sex" and "man boy sex" were entered into Google Trends, the top four top search countries listed were Pakistan, Iran, Saudi Arabia and Egypt.

It's pretty evident that despite the lack of sexual freedoms in Muslim societies, there is a voracious appetite behind the scenes for sex, sex and more sex. And maybe that is exactly the remedy - more sex. Move over Condoleezza Rice, perhaps the real key to peace in the Middle East is sexual detente.

Bush should consider appointing Hugh Hefner as an honorary General and send in a few battalions of Playboy bunnies. It's hard to imagine how they could be less successful at quelling the insurgency than the strategies that have been used thus far.

No wonder countries such as Iran banned YouTube and filter content. If Iranian youth of martyr-like disposition were free to surf the sexual web they might give up the desire to blow themselves up. How tragic would that be? The rage that creates suicide bombers would be notched down a few critical degrees. Suddenly the lure of hypothetical virgins located on a plane of supernatural existence wouldn't be so ardently wished for. I mean heck, why risk the odds of getting metaphysical sex when you have Sylvia Saint and Jenna Jameson right there in your room.

Sexual freedoms may indeed be a remedy for Middle Eastern male rage if it was given half the chance. But the wily mullahs have figured that one out and that's why there are routine sermons blasting Western decadence and filters buzzing away removing data that carries the threat of a sneak sex attack. Keeping their citizenry in a condition of guilt and loathing means the rage can be whipped up at a moment's notice, and when the call goes out for volunteers to blow themselves up, officials won't be kept waiting.

The prophet Mohammad seemed to be more liberated than many of his followers. He famously said - "In this world, I loved women, pleasant scents and prayer". Notice that "women" comes before "prayer".

Meanwhile Muslim youth who want to flirt and date have to be inventive. Some in Rabat, Morocco, exchange furtive kisses in the shadow of the quay walls in the city's harbor district. Others in Cairo make out in cars on the notorious and frowned upon "Shari al-Hubb" or "Street of Love".

In some Muslim jurisdictions you can be arrested for having a condom in your pocket. The Spiegel article mentions an Egyptian journalist named Ali al-Gundi who was stopped by police while he was driving with his girl friend. Ali had forgotten to bring his driving license with him and they were both placed in jail. When the police found a condom, they insisted on viewing his girl friend as a prostitute. Ali claims that if the officers had been less sexually frustrated themselves, the couple's trivial "offenses" would likely have been overlooked.

The greatest obstacle to even a minimum amount of sexual freedom is Sharia law and entrenched Islamic morality. The taboos against sexual freedom are so profound in strict Muslim societies such as Saudi Arabia, that if an unmarried woman is discovered in the company of a man who is not a relative, she risks being taken into custody and subjected to an examination to determine if she recently had sex. This type of regulation makes even Victorian England seem liberated by comparison.

So long as sexual freedoms are censored and driven underground in the Middle East, male energy will find an outlet in rage and conflict. Having said that, obviously no amount of sexual freedom will solve the political problems of that war torn region. But perhaps.. just maybe ... instead of rage and suicide, a more moderate and reasonable mood might prevail if young Muslim guys weren't walking sexual pressure cookers primed to explode.

In the meantime, instead of dropping propaganda leaflets, Bush might be better advised to hire Hef as a consultant and air drop a few thousand Playboys.
Aidan Maconachy is a freelance writer and artist based in Ontario. You can visit his blog at http://aidanmaconachyblog.blogspot.com
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Online Asian Dating Single women and men
25th May 2007
Author: john waltzer

Asia is a large continent with many countries on board. The major countries are India, China, Korea, Thailand and Philippine to name a few. The diversity among the Asian communities is impressive and is sub-divided into racial characteristic, cultural, and ethnic traits that are far removed (but as rich) from the Western world.
Asians especially the Chinese, Koreans, and Indians are enterprising communities that have transcended the national boundaries and immigrated in large numbers to many developed nations in the world. One can find Asian everywhere in large pockets. They have intermingled with the local populace and integrated culturally wherever they have settled. In spite of being in foreign societies, they have retained their cultural and racial characteristic.
Asian dating is very popular among the oriental and even among men, women of the Western world who like dating Asian single and having sex relationship dating with hot men and cute Asian teen girl. The community finds online matchmaking services the best dating resource for finding Asian singles, couples, and adult swingers. Alternative sex is popular among Asian gay lesbian community.
Asian beauty is class apart with grace and charm that is immensely alluring to men. Unlike their western counter parts, Asian females are shy and more homily. They make better wives and lovers, which those into interracial dating search in online personals ads of Internet dating sites. Asians connect through Asian dating services on Net. Asian matchmaking is confined to within one’s community, religion, and Nationality.
Nevertheless, many Asians have intermarried and the trend is growing. That is why interracial sex and matchmaking is on the rise among Indians, Chinese, Koreans, and Philippines. Thanks to online dating, finding Asian dating personals is very easy. One can search Asian personals ads of mature women, young teen girl, boy, and hot man for love, romance, and sex.
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Is He Gay?
16th August 2005
Author: Lindsay Wincherauk

Is He Gay?
The following signs may help you decide if your boyfriend or -husband may be gay.
He may be gay if:
-his razor is in the bath tub or shower.
-his magazine collection contains Men's Fitness Magazines.
-his magazine collection contains a lot of fashion magazines.
-he works in retail.
-he does regular facials.
-he actually likes to dance.
-he doesn't have a lisp but it sounds like he does.
-he has had sex with another man.
-his music collection contains Christina or Justin.
-he is still walking when the treadmill hits 6 miles per hour.
He's likely gay if:
-he likes gay pornography.
-he's a waiter.
-his name is Chad, Jeremy or Josh.
-he shaves his body hair.
-he has a d--k in his mouth.
-he calls his male friends girlfriend.
-he calls anything fabulous.
-he watches day time television, or any show about cooking or decorating
-he watches Will & Grace.
-when he is asked if he is gay, he has to think about his answer and answers in a politically correct way.
-he has a loofah in the shower.
-he works at: The Gap, Old Navy or The Banana Republic.
-he is obsessed with body image.
-his music collection contains a lot of house or techno.
-he knows who Margaret Cho is.
He's more than likely gay if:
-he's a hairdresser.
-he likes hardcore supposedly straight pornography, the harder it is, the gayer he is.
-he has more underwear than you.
-his diet contains any of the following: E, K, G Crystal or Poppers.
-he spends a lot of time dancing with his shirt off.
-he chooses to go by Stephen, Patrick or Jonathan. when asked if he is gay, he aggressively answer that he is straight.
-he's had a d--k in both hands - one in his mouth and one in his butt at the same time.
-he prefers to have sex with other men.
-he also has a boyfriend.
-most of his female friends are overweight.
-he is far more attractive than you.
-he has more girlfriends than guy friends.
-his wardrobe consists of shirts that have Old Navy, Gap, Banana Republic or Abercrombie logos on them.
-he watches Friends.
-he knows what a loofah is.
-he lives in the city and still drives a pick up truck.
-he's a male figure skater.
-his music collection contains any of the following: Madonna, Britney, Kylie, Barbara, Celine, Shania or Cher.
He's definitely gay if:
-if he has ever been involved in a gay bashing.
-he is not the parent of a male figure skater, yet, he likes watching figure skating.
Lindsay Wincherauk is a co-author of Seed's Sketchy Relationship Theories - A Guide to the Perils of Dating (How not to become a bar regular).
For more info visit http://www.seedenterprises.com
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Indonesia, Tibet And The Secret Of 'Terima Kasih'
By Anand Krishna


I first met His Holiness the Dalai Lama in 1996. Accompanying me was a parliamentarian and two other friends. We were fortunate enough to have a private audience with him. When I said we were from Indonesia, he immediately reacted: "Oh yes, yes, yes ... Indonesia .... Tibet has very strong relations, strong ties with Indonesia."
"Atisha, was a monk from India. He went to Indonesia to learn from the Indonesian master," he said.

Fortunately, I knew the story.
Indeed, not many Indonesians remember we used to be a treasure house of wisdom. We did not import spirituality from India; indeed, even the Indian pundits came to our archipelago to learn from our indigenous masters.

Later, Atisha traveled to Tibet, where he propagated the teachings of his master.
The meditation he taught is still being practiced by the Tibetans. It is called Tong-Len, literally meaning "The Meditation of Terima and Kasih, Receiving and Giving". The common phrase terima kasih, now meaning "thank you", is no ordinary phrase.

There's a deep philosophy behind it. It reflects our view of life and it projects our deep rooted belief. We, Indonesians, believe, or at least once believed, in the law of gratitude. We do not, or did not, need a movie like The Secret to tell us to "be grateful" for all we receive from the universe.

More than 800 years ago, the Indian pundit traveled to Sumatra, then known as Svarna Dvipa, to learn from Dharmakirti Suvarnadvipi, Dharmakirti of Svarna Dvipa. He spent more than 10 years with his master. He documented each word he heard and each lesson he learned.
We, Indonesians, do not have any record of this.

Later, this meditation would be used by Tibetan medicine men and doctors. They would imagine their patients' pain and draw it into themselves. This is the first part of meditation, terima -- receiving. Then, in the second part, they would send out their energy of well being, kasih -- giving.

The was technique soon replaced their herb-based anesthesia. Let me remind you again, all this happened over 800 years ago.

The beauty of this technique is, the receiver of pain, the recipient, can process pain and transform it into well-being. All negativities can be drawn into oneself, be processed and then projected out as positive energy. Now the technique is being used by many Western neurologists, as part of transcranial magnetic stimulation therapy, to relieve the suffering of some stroke victims.

"But I have to emphasize, we haven't got a clue what's going on," said Max Bennett, professor at the University of Sydney and one of the world's top neurologists.
"It's a phenomenon. But in one sense, it does indicate that there are a lot of things that we know nothing about in Western science," he said.

"We know by the year about 2020, the greatest disabling phenomenon for the health of the human race will be depression. Not cancer, not heart disease, but depression," he said.
This drug-free technique from our own archipelago can ultimately replace the expensive morphine-based pain killers.

When discussing the Chinese occupation of his homeland, the Dalai Lama said, "This is the meditation which frees me from hatred. I use it every day to send out positive energy and feelings to the Chinese."

I personally can never ever forget the words of the Dalai Lama: "We Tibetans are always thankful to Indonesia and Indonesians, for this beautiful Tong Len teaching." Those of you who have seen and heard him may recall the way he speaks. He uses minimal words, short sentences and is not burdened by the sophisticates of English grammar. I bear witness to Dalai Lama's terima kasih for us, Indonesians and our land, Indonesia. I stand witness to his gratefulness, his gratitude.

Now, as Indonesians let's remind ourselves of what it means to be thanked. It is kembali kasih, and when reading between the lines it means "I am equally grateful to you."

Unlike the American "welcome" and British "never mind", Indonesians return "gratitude with gratitude". Let us now face the mirror of our consciousness and let us check the face of our souls. Have we returned the Tibetan gratitude with gratitude?

For almost a millennium the Tibetans have preserved the missing pages of our history. They have preserved them with a sense of gratitude. What have we done for them? How do we return our gratitude to them?

The European Union, the United States, the United Nations and countries like Poland, Germany, India and Taiwan have all commented on the recent uprising in Tibet against the illegal occupation of their homeland by the Communist regime of China.

What do we have to say? Perhaps we find it more comfortable to remain silent as we have been doing recently. But, let us remind ourselves this is not our tradition, this is not our culture.
Let us remind ourselves of what Sukarno, the father of our nation, once said: "Freedom to be free* For, of what use would be 'freedom from fear'; of what use would be 'freedom to express, freedom to believe, and freedom from poverty, freedom from fear' -- if there is no 'freedom to be free?'"

Time and again, Sukarno would repeat that the fruits of Indonesia's freedom would not be enjoyed by Indonesians alone and that Indonesia would unceasingly work for the freedom of all peoples from all lands.

I have no space left to discuss the illegalities of the Chinese occupation of Tibet. Any student of history cannot but condemn the occupation. We, as a nation, must immediately stand up against the occupation. Otherwise, generations to come may laugh at our cowardice, unclear foreign policies and our negligence toward history. Aside from the Tibetan issue, I am afraid our attitude may ultimately harm us.

Note: This article is also published on The Jakarta Post
Anand Krishna Spiritual Writer (http://www.aumkar.org)